Hello everyone,
It’s good to be here this week for another edition of how to
murder worries completely from our lives. I shall be telling you on this
edition the story of OMO .T.
an acquaintance of mine who got herself so
engulfed in worries which turned to severe depression and later to death. Yes
Omo .T. committed suicide due to worries.
Follow me on this edition, read her
story and analyze today why should avoid worrying. WORRY IS PREPARING TO GO ON A
SUICIDE MISSION.
A friend of mine strongly believes that; it is a futile
effort trying to eradicate worries. I just told her one thing, just one thing
that changed that ideology in her.
Would you like to know what I told her? I know you do love to
know, I will tell you, just keep following. If you are among the group of
people who thinks as my friend used to think, it will do you a lot of good to
change your ideology also.
Lots of people believe that it is highly impossible to be
totally happy, and that is the reason why they could not enjoy 100% happiness
in their life.
Others believe it is impossible to alleviate negativities;
hence they keep experiencing one form of negativity or the other.
This was what I told my friend that changed her ideology on
any form of impossibility. There is nothing under the sun that is impossible.
To me, that word “IMPOSSIBILTY” does not exist. You
are what you believe you are. You are what God says you are. You can never
become what you feel you are not. If you believe it is possible to avoid
worries; it will be so but if you believe the other way round, it will also be
so.
That is why God gave us both life and death to choose,
worries is death you know; so choose wisely. The God that I serve says that
everything is possible to them that believe so why would anyone who serves this
most supreme God think or believes that something can be impossible?
I will share OMO T. story in a moment, but first join me to
sing this beautiful song, it’s one of my favorites, you may not have a good
voice to sing, it does not matter, just read the lyrics.
I CAN SEE
EVERYTHING TURNING AROUND, TURNING AROUND, TURNING AROUND FOR MY FAVOUR.
This should be your song too, things will turn around for
your good if you believe, but if you feel your situation is beyond remedy, YOU
ARE ON YOUR OWN. That way; you can never be a friend of God or my
friend.
OMO T story (Not real name).
She is a beautiful, humble, intelligent and a down to earth
person born and raised in Lagos by highly wealthy family. She had a very
wonderful and fun filled child/teenage hood. Her pre-school, primary, secondary
and University were all of good and interesting memories.
As soon as she graduated from the University, she got a job
with Access bank and was doing very well in her job for the two years that she
spent there.
She decided to go for her master’s degree while still working
so; she applied to a school in Manchester, United Kingdom. Within few months
she was ready to travel to the UK for her studies and eventually she left.
Everything was going on smoothly both in her academics, and
every other aspect of her life especially the steady relationship she was
enjoying at that time with her fiancé.
She was supposed to get married to him on completion of her
course from the UK. There were so much in love and there were happy. Both
parents new them as prospective son/daughter – in-law.
Four months to the end of her studies, she started feeling a
little bit tired after engaging in any simple activity, she also feels some
abdominal pain at interval which was not severe at that time, she was already
planning to go see a doctor during the week but while in class on this day, she
slump and was taken to the hospital.
At the hospital she was diagnosed of ovarian cancer. The
doctors explained to her what needed to be done as the cancerous cells were
spreading so fast.
She went home and became withdrawn, a very wrong thing to do
in such circumstance. She switched up her phone, she stopped going to school, and
she even refused to go for the next appointment in the hospital. She also
refused to tell her parents not even her immediate elder sister who is like her
twin sister as they were so close.
When the fiancé tried to call her on several occasions to no
avail, he came down to her parent’s house expressing his worries. The parents
were also worried and told him so, together; they called her guardian and who
went to her house, knocked and knocked but there was no response. He called her
course adviser who informed him that she slumped in class and was rushed to the
hospital; he hurried to that hospital and was told she was discharged the next
day.
Her neighbors said they have not seen her for days but the
gate man said she actually drove-in in a taxi few days ago and have not seen
her going out after that day. As soon as
her guardian told the parents of his findings, they booked for two air ticket
and were on their way to the UK in the next available flight.
As soon as they arrived, her guardian picked them up from the
airport and drove straight to the nearest police station to Omo T’s house.
Together they went to her house, knocked and knocked but no response, but as
soon as her father and mother started shouting her native name ‘TITILOPE’ (not
real name), she came out and opened the door.
Surprised to see her parents, she clanged to her father and
wept.
I need to attend to other important matters now, Read the
next post for the continuation of this story (it’s a true life story). After
reading this story you; you will agree with me that worry is what everyone
ought to avoid by any means possible because it does a lot of harm and brings
no good.
TILL THE NEXT EDITION.
CHEERS!
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